My fingers need some exercise! I've been super busy and its not going to stop anytime soon.
On the way home yesterday, I thought to myself, "I wish I had someone waiting on me at home with some hot, homemade food." Then I realized that I live by myself! HA! I have to do everything myself. *sad face* My next thought was, "If I ever get married, I hope that man is domesticated lmao. In fact, that's a must!" I have so many things going on: school, work, research, bills... I have RESPONSIBILITIES. I'm gone for about 12-16 hours a day sometimes. I literally have no time to interact with the opposite sex. If its not about business, we're not talking... Of course, with a few exceptions.
All of this thinking made me realize that relationships are vital. Most importantly, the love we all desire does not have to be given by a significant other (etc. boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife). Every person that we come into contact with has formed some type of relationship. Don't be so keen on finding a particular kind of relationship. Let the moment take place and allow time for things to flourish patiently. Trust me, you have all you need at this moment!
I've been itching to finish reading "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman! Its a book that sheds light on how to love and how to be loved. I believe this book is a wonderful read due to the fact that it may help me change my skewed perspective on loving people. Its soooo hard, ya feel me? It's okay to LOVE! It doesn't have to be a sensual type of love! It can be the "I care about your well-being" type of love or "I care to see you make it in life" type of love.
All in all, take time out of your day to be genuine and love on someone today. Share a laugh or spread some encouragement. May Patience have her perfect work in your life!
Peace and good vibes guys.
Linds
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